http://thegriefblog.com Thu, 03 Jul 2008 19:37:45 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en By Harriet Hodgson Four months ago my daughter was killed in a car crash.  Her sudden death on a snowy night stunned her 15-year-old twins and sent shock waves through the entire family.  Many of us are still in shock.  I know I am.  One moment, I know my daughter is ... http://thegriefblog.com/grief/grief/time-is-different-when-youre-grieving-2/ By Vaughn Balchunas “You would know the secret of death. But how shall you find it unless you seek it in the heart of life? The owl whose night-bound eyes are blind unto the day cannot unveil the mystery of light. If you would indeed behold the spirit of death, open your heart ... http://thegriefblog.com/grief/grief/the-importance-of-memorials-in-the-grieving-process/ By Harriet Hodgson Crying comes with the grief territory. You may sob uncontrollably right after the death of your loved one. Later in the grief journey you may cry at odd times and in odd places. Worse, you may start to cry without any warning. These crying ... http://thegriefblog.com/grief/grief/six-steps-to-take-when-youre-grieving-and-cry-in-public/ We had first met at a Christian Teen Camp at Nanoose Bay, here on Vancouver Island, in mid July 1972. I was there, with 5 girlfriends as dishwashers, as none of our parents could afford the cost. He was standing quietly in front of the Lodge, with his bike, looking ... http://thegriefblog.com/grief/grief/my-story-in-loving-memory-of-gary/ By Steve Goltiao If you are looking for something a little special as a funeral keepsake to remember those loved ones who have now departed, look no further than the ideas that are provided below. 1.  Remembrance Heart This funeral keepsake is a beautifully carved semi-precious stone heart that comes with a personalized ... http://thegriefblog.com/grief/grief/choosing-the-right-funeral-keepsake-to-honor-your-loved-one/ Child of Mine The child I brought into this world Is no longer of this world Yes it is not like the first year When it was hard to catch my breath Awakening each morning with the searing pain Not wanting to believe he was really gone Dreaming he was still with us Searching for him in familiar ... http://thegriefblog.com/grief/grief/poetry-contest-entry-child-of-mine-by-kim-hodne/ By Elaine Williams When you become a widow your life changes and there is no guarantee of sanity in the transition. Some days are topsy-turvy; other days have a numbing calm. You wonder if life will ever be joyful again. You're not crazy, you're grieving. Joy has a way of creeping up ... http://thegriefblog.com/grief/grief/crafting-a-new-life-as-a-widow/ Days of Tina One day ago Tears ran down my face In remembrance of you Two days ago I lit A candle for you In remembrance of you One Hundred and Eighty Four days ago I heard your sweet voice Say I love you Mom One Hundred and Eighty Five days ago I looked into your crystal brown eyes And told you You are ... http://thegriefblog.com/grief/grief/days-of-tina/ Hi Dr. Gloria, I have been listening to your show for a while. I download to Ipod and listen in the car. Eight years ago my 3 year old son was killed when a truck backed over him while he was walking with his sister and childcare provider to the store. ... http://thegriefblog.com/grief/grief/having-a-hard-time/ I need help. recently, my son was murder and it is tearing me apart from my heart to my head. I do not know how to deal with it.  please respond to me. Drs. Gloria and Heidi Respond Dear Bernice, We are so very sorry for your loss. The hardest thing a parent ... http://thegriefblog.com/grief/grief/how-do-i-survive-the-murder-of-my-son-i-need-help/