Planning Your Wedding After a Loss
… yes, you CAN have your wedding the way YOU envision it. I do understand that your loss is interfering with your “perfect wedding” plans, but your planned or anticipated wedding is for YOU, and your partner, and nobody else. Rules of etiquette encompass most aspects of social interaction
in any society. Hence, it is no [...]
The pain is still so raw
My Dearest Jennifer,
I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious son. My son also died of a drug overdose in 2005. December is still so recent and your pain so raw. Take care of yourself and remember to take this journey one step at a time.
I am so sorry for the circumstances [...]
One step at a time
From Debra -
Conswayla,
I am so sorry for the death of your little one. Take care of yourself and do this one step at a time.
Gentle Hugs,
Debra
I will be beside you in this empty darkness
From Shaakiera -
i am ur friend. i will never let go of ur hand. u can count on me to b there rite beside u in al tis empty darkness.
I too lost my first and only child
From Conswayla -
Sorry for everyone’s loss. I too lost my first and only child friday March 5, 2010. Mikayla Ariel died in my womb and I did not know it. She moved on the day of my baby shower, she moved the day of my doctors appt., but then she stop moving on wednesday night [...]
I am so very sorry to hear about your precious son
From Jane –
Dear Jennifer,
I am so very sorry to hear about your precious son. Your situation is very similar to mine. On July 23, 2007, we lost our beautiful daughter Cassie to a drug overdose. She was with “friends” that night who left her in our van outside the house all night. My husband [...]
NO, you’re not crazy
From Pat –
I lost my husband on Oct 17,2008. We were married 20 years. My husband was 51 when he died. After reading many of your comments, I would just like to say, NO, you’re not crazy, I felt many of those ways for the first 6 months. And some things I still continue [...]
The Grief Road is a Never-ending Journey
From Linda -
Hello Jennifer,
Try not to be so hard on yourself. The grief road is a never-ending journey each of us must take. You have done nothing wrong. I applaud your getting out there so soon after your husband’s death. I have no doubt you were faithful. You’re a good woman and I enjoyed reading [...]
Why did God do this to me?
From SK –
I lost my dear husband last year. It was just one year after our marriage. He was 32 when he passed away all of a sudden due to massive cardiac arrest. It was a usual day and he went to the doctor saying he had gastric problem and i was at home [...]
Grief is unrelenting and merciless
From Revlady -
Dear Jennifer,
I am so sorry for your loss and know that it must be excruciatingly painful to lose a child, regardless of what may have cause it. And, grief does beat us down. It is unrelenting and merciless. That is what grief is and it does its job oh so well.
It is also [...]
