Living Without Those You Love
September 7, 2008 by The Grief Blog
Filed under Dealing with Grief
By Teddy Mueller
Hello my friends,
We need to talk about life without those we love! We all lose someone we love. We never know when, why, or the reasons for it, if there is one. We need to somehow move forward as hard as it is. I know how hard it is. I have lost more than my share. I still have a hard time, but I know I am keeping them alive as long as I am alive! There is no understanding of why we lose the ones we love. I wish there was a reason, take the jerks not the ones that have done so much for all of us. You know who those are. Our family, the Military, the heroes who stand up to those who want to hurt others. I wish I had an answer “Why”, I don’t know why. We have to search inside of us to bring the strength needed to move forward. This is the hardest thing you will go through. There are no books, no studies, that you can do to understand.
You can’t understand what is not understandable. All you must do is keep their memory alive, with your family, kids, friends, co-workers, and all who knew them. Never forget the wonderful people they were when they lived! I live everyday with the memories of the souls I have lost especially my family. Be strong, go forward, for them. They wanted the best for you whether they admitted it or not. Teach, show what needs to be shown, do what you wanted but maybe were put down for it. We all have not had a great childhood, so make a difference NOW! You are in control, and don’t let the past be an excuse for why you can’t! That’s a cheap way to try and get out. Stand, do the right thing, it’s not easy, do it because it’s right!
We must lead the youth to the goal of being honest, understanding, and lead them to the path of righteousness, so they can be true to themselves! Remember those you loved, make sure they stay with you everyday, teach the things they wanted you to understand,
your children will lose their friend, teach them about life and death, we must all deal with it. If you talk they will listen and make sure your words help them understand, none of us want to deal with this subject at the same point we have 2 things we know…1. There is life. 2. There is Death, this is all we know for sure, the time we will never know, so we must support the thing we know will come.
Keep the precious in your heart alway’s, You have to keep them alive, Don’t forget…!
Life is short, enjoy the journey…that’s all we have!
Teddy Mueller November 2007
About the Author
Teddy Mueller started his career as the drummer for classic rock band Axe, touring with Ozzy Osbourne, Kiss, Judas Priest, Motley Crue, Ted Nugent, Cheap Trick, ZZ Top, Iron Maiden, Joan Jett, Alice Cooper, and many, many more, Teddy has been around the world playing his drums and played for crowds of over 50,000 people! Since then, Teddy is a voting Grammy member as well as working in the retail business environment as manager and district manager for major retail companies. To learn more about Teddy Mueller, visit his website: http://TeddyMueller.com
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