I too in some way lost my husband almost 5 months ago.
From Letty –
Hi Jasmin-
I too in some waylost my husband almost 5 months ago. He had a massive stroke and suffered severe brain damage and is laying on a bed in a vegetative state. He had kidney failure and required dialysis for 5 years. We have been together since I was 12 and he was 16. He have 5 kids together the ages of 8,7,6,4 and 21/2. He will be married for 9 years this October. I am back to work because I have to because there is nobody who is going to support our family. I since it happend prayed everyday and am waiting for a miracle but have realized that they don’t exist anymore. My family has supported me the best they can and his family tried at first but since then they have become self centered and gone back to their old ways. My kids are back to school now and they are the only reason I get up in the mornings anymore. I don’t feel like cooking anymore and most of the time I find my self eating out with them and eating at some park. Everything reminds me of him and I feel like I have to be with my kids 24/7 because that what he would want me to do. When we go visit him I’m not sure if he recognises us but for sure one thing is he will never be the person he once was. I want him so bad to just talk to me and tell me that everything will be ok like he once did! I miss him so much.
