I, too, lost my mother
From Dionne -
Thyra, I am sorry about your loss. I do have some idea about what you are going through. I lost my mother last year. My mom wasn’t sick (as far as we know) she just went to sleep and didn’t wake up. Such a Shock. We each have a soul and therefore your mother isn’t gone in the sense that she no longer exists, she just exists in a different way. The following was a blessing for me:
John 14:1-3
“Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me. In my Father’s house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am.” (NIV)
I also found reading about near-death-experiences to be helpful in kind of picturing where my Mom is now.
Know that your mother loves you.
From I lost my mom 4 days ago,
I lost my mum on the 11 May 2009 and i feel lost. I cant look @ her picture or think of her bcause it hurts 2 much. I live in the uk and hav not seen my mum 4 nearly 2 yrs and now i find myself alone away frum friends and family with all this pain. Life seems pointless, empty and im sad all the time. Does this pain ever get any better?