You never get over it . . .
From Cheryl -
Hi everyone.
I lost my middle son who was 23 ,4 yrs ago…..ONE Thing I know is….
You never get Over it……You cant. They were a part of you.Some days you may
be able to smile and act like all is ok…..some days you cant get out
of bed. Some days all you do is think of them. Life after that day…..
has totally changed you forever…..You will never get over it and you
will never be the same person before that day.
Huggs to all…….Cheryl
I am so sorry for your loss. No, you never get over it. My daughter has been gone nearly 3 years now and it still feels like yesterday. How can you get over someone who was all of your life? Just not possible. Sending you a big hug! And sharing your pain.
Lana
Hello,
I am writing a novel that concerns a boy who dies at seventeen. I have done a lot of research and have heard your story more than a few times. Tears come to my eyes as I think of it.
I think you should remember that you and your son will meet again someday. I know it’s very hard, and I agree from the bottom of my heart — you never get over it. A child is a part of you.
But it helps to know that you and your child will be reunited someday, and the reunion will be sweet.
My prayers are with you and your son, who is now happy and peaceful.
Hannah
on august 21,2008 my 22yr old son was taken from my life. never the same as you were before. my outlook on life has changed so much. getting out of bed you ask yourself “why?” . its so hard for anyone to understand unless they have been through it.bottome line…..i have never felt so alone in my life. my life without my son is so empty. what used to matter no longer does or it doesnt matter as much. the choices i make arent long term anymore. some days i just want to get in my car and drive..to nowhere..to not feel the depth of this pain. i just want to hold my son again. to touch his hair..to see his beautiful smile..so please dont say that “you will be with him again someday” . that doesnt help at all…honestly..no words help….