Our Radio Show Guest Shares

One of our guests on Healing the Grieving Heart has graciously shared with us pictures of her son, Michael, who was killed in a dorm fire at his university. Gail has since worked successfully to have the laws changed to require all state schools to comply with fire and safety standards. Thank you Gail, for the work you’ve done and especially for sharing with us from the depths of your heart.  (You can listen to her story by going to the Radio Show Archives. It aired on November 29, 200 7 and is titled Arson and the Death of a Twin Son.) Gloria

Gloria,

Here are some pictures to share. One is of Michael and Melissa in a nativity scene, another is of Michael when he was in the American Boy Choir as well as a couple of others.

This is one of the hardest times of years no matter how long its been since you’ve lost a child. One thing we do each year is buy a gift for Michael, put it under the tree, then donate it to a child in need. This gives our family alot of comfort in helping a child that is needy. As compassionate friends have taught us, we stopped an old tradition, our stocking tradition. Being that Michael loved that tradition, it was less painful to stop that tradition and an start news ones to help ease the pain. On Christmas Day, we light a candle that says “I’m here with you.” We also hang a star outside for our child from heaven to see home. Helping others this time of year and remembring your child in your own special way is about the best any of us can do.

You’re welcome to share these thought with your listeners and thank you for the opportunity to share Michael’s Story. 

                                  Warm Regards,
                                  Gail Minger